The secrets of real confidence

The Lemon Drop: The Path to Confidence

Do you realize that confidence is not just given but earned? 

Welcome to another Lemon Drop, where we delve into the steps to earn confidence through your actions. Showing up for yourself and staying true to your values and promises is the key to building confidence. 


The Slice: Earning Confidence Through Actions

I write in detail about the evolution from real confidence into courage in my book but it is important to understand confidence involves more than wishful thinking. Like anything great in life, confidence is earned and has the opportunity to grow but this is completely up to you. It is easy to blame lack of confidence on someone else's comments that may be hindering or hurtful, but the truth is the only thing you are in control of is how you react to what is said. When you deeply understand your values, morals and you show up and do what you say you’re going to do, the outside noise does not matter. This is real confidence. This is when your self-belief will transpire into taking action. This action is courage.


The Squeeze: The Path to Self-Belief and Courage

In order to develop real confidence, the journey starts with building rapport with yourself. Let's explore how staying true to your commitments and values contributes to this process. By doing so, you cultivate a belief in yourself that evolves into courage, enabling you to take meaningful actions.


Practical Pointers: Steps to Building Confidence

  1. Show Up for Yourself: Consistently take actions that align with your goals and values.

  2. Stay True to Your Values: Make decisions that reflect your morals and principles.

  3. Avoid False Promises: Keep your commitments to yourself and others, and follow through on your intentions.

  4. Reflect on Your Progress: Regularly assess your actions and celebrate your achievements.

  5. Embrace Challenges: Face difficulties with the belief that you can overcome them, using each experience to build confidence.


The Sip: Embrace the Journey to Confidence

By showing up for yourself and staying true to your values, you earn real confidence. Each action you take builds rapport with yourself, turning belief into courage and leading to meaningful achievements. Embrace this journey, and let it guide you toward a life filled with confidence and purposeful action.

Until Next Week,

Kayla M Logue


P.S. I want to hear from you! Email me questions, thoughts or topics you would love to read about at kayla@kaylalogue.com.

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