The Power and Pitfalls of Promises

The Lemon Drop: Truth in Promise - The Impact of Honoring Your Word

Have you ever reflected on the profound impact of promises, both kept and broken?

Today, we delve into the significance of staying true to your word, recognizing the power it holds in shaping confidence and self-trust. Happy Wednesday and welcome to another Lemon Drop Newsletter, where we explore the delicate balance between promises made and promises kept.


The Slice: False Promises - The Lethal Blow to Confidence

One thing I value deeply is my word and the credibility I give and show to others. Staying true to this and building a strong foundation of trust with anyone in my life is number one. Ironically, making promises to myself I did not always hold to the same standard.  

I would usually set unrealistic expectations for myself, setting myself up for failure from the start, but ultimately leading to compromising my own word to myself. These false promises were exactly as titled above…lethal blows to confidence. When I finally understood the severity of this, I became incredibly more serious about the commitments I made to myself. They were no longer just words but pillars of self-trust. 

I continue to be intentional with these promises and no longer break my word or promises to myself. In the same way I hold my word and credibility to the highest standard with others, I now do the same with myself.


The Squeeze: The Power and Pitfalls of Your Word to Yourself

In a world filled with promises, the ones we make to ourselves often carry the most weight. Let's delve into the understanding that false promises not only break our commitment but also erode our confidence. From recognizing the consequences of unkept promises to harnessing the power of honoring your word, understanding this delicate balance becomes crucial for maintaining self-trust and confidence.


Practical Pointers: Nurturing Your Word for Confidence Building

  1. Be Realistic: Make promises to yourself that are achievable and aligned with your goals.

  2. Set Clear Intentions: Clearly define the commitments you are making to yourself.

  3. Prioritize Accountability: Hold yourself accountable for the promises you make.

  4. Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate when you keep your commitments.

  5. Learn from Setbacks: Understand the lessons in unfulfilled promises and use them for growth.


The Sip: Drink in the Confidence of Your Word… Honoring Commitments

Breaking free from the cycle of false promises, honoring your word becomes a sip of empowerment, paving the way for heightened confidence and self-trust. Each commitment fulfilled is not just a promise kept but a step toward personal growth and the development of a strong foundation of confidence. Embrace the power and pitfalls of your word to yourself, and let this delicate balance guide you toward a future enriched by commitment and self-assurance.

Until Next Week,

Kayla M Logue


P.S. I want to hear from you! Email me questions, thoughts or topics you would love to read about at kayla@kaylalogue.com.

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